Are you in a hurry to have a "partner in - life"? Are you in a race to altar?
This one's for you. Do not worry this is also for me. A 25 year old lady want to encourage you. I want to share the beauty of being a single.
People look on the eminent of marriage. Sometimes in our lives when the topic of marriage come up, you will cry, breakables of self pity, you are in a hurry, all both sides of your life is bitter. Well, I tell you this, that God is enough, Jesus Christ is your best friend. Maybe a tough season for you, and not being easy to cope in the society but the grace of the God is sufficient for you to pursue His presence and wait for the intimacy of marriage. Your gonna wait for the glory of God! You are blessed to have you have in His time, and learn to discover your true identity and character while waiting.
1. Keep pressing on Him. God is positioning you to bless you and not to harm you. You have probably not expected to see that God is working in your life. Continue to be humble, and watch the attitude of your heart. Trust Him in your circumstances. Submit your body as a pleasing sacrifice (Romans 12:1). In this you are trusting God to do His will upon you. (following God is a preparation for you to follow the "man after God's own heart")
2. Live your life to the fullest. Your life starts now. It will not start after your "I Do's". Live life, enjoy your being single. Try to travel, start your own ministry, be intentional to be friends. Be in your season that truly intensifies the beauty of single. Keep investing, because when the time you pursued "MRS Degree" everything will changed. You cannot do what single people does.
3. Do your task. Since God is preparing your to be an excellent wife, and it is also a look for qualities to develop, our whole task is to remain pure. A call to purity (Stay pure, perhaps pursue virginity). This is the greatest misery to grasp and offer to God and to a man He is preparing for you.
Another thing, is to nail the task He has for you. Madami kang kailangan gawin. Do not waste your time!
4. Relax. Make up your mind not to worry. Free from everything, just only Jesus.
Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Maybe a distressing season of your life to be single or it could be the happy moments to treasure for the rest of your life. Do not let the enemy steal your joy and feed your mind about your empty ring finger! Trust God! Psalm 56:3 When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.
For the meantime, magpa ganda ka muna, kasi yung mapapangasawa mo nag papa gwapo pa :)